December 2, 2023

Amy Duggar is a controversial determine amongst Duggar followers and critics alike.

A few of her personal cousins are too brainwashed to speak to her. Amy was fortunate sufficient to keep away from a lifetime of cult indoctrination.

She can also be not passing on Duggar household generational trauma. As an alternative of IBLP abuse, she practices light parenting.

However is she doing an excellent job of it? A few of her personal followers and followers aren’t so certain.

Amy Rachelle King, whom most followers know as “wild cousin” Amy Duggar, is married to Dillon King.

Collectively, they’ve a son. 3-year-old Daxton King will flip 4 years previous this October.

Being three, he’s simply sufficiently old to rise up to mischief, and never but sufficiently old to totally management his impulses. And even to understand (with out steerage) the distinction between enjoyable and hurt.

Amy Duggar seems within the current Amazon documentary collection Shiny Blissful Individuals. (Photograph Credit score: Amazon)

So, what’s the problem? On Friday, June 30, Amy took to Instagram with a little bit glimpse into her life as a guardian.

“Mild parenting is why there’s whine within the fridge!” she quipped in her Instagram caption.

Subsequent to her message, she had a video of her retrieving a pair of scissors from 3-year-old Daxton.

Amy Duggar along with her husband and son in 2022. (Photograph Credit score: Instagram)

“He now has paper to chop on the desk supervised,” Amy informed her followers and followers.

“I might inform he needed to make use of the scissors,” she defined. Her son “then ran off.”

Scissors are an intriguing instrument for a kid. They’re in a position to completely alter their atmosphere. However “permanence” is a shaky idea to preschool-aged children.

On this Instagram caption from June 30, 2023, Amy Duggar wrote about light parenting after confiscating scissors from her 3-year-old son. (Instagram)

“Hand them to mommy and obey,” Amy instructed Daxton through the video.

She efficiently retrieved the scissors.

Apparently, she revealed, her son had clearly needed to offer the cat a haircut. Whereas he would seemingly not have been in a position to, it’s really greatest to not give children an opportunity to even strive.

Amy Rachelle King rings in 2023 with a festive selfie. (Instagram)

Amy emphasised the significance of light parenting, which is simply … parenting the place you’re not abusing or in any other case harming your baby.

She famous very precisely that yelling at kids doesn’t do something however “hurt them.”

“However,” Amy famous, “by speaking successfully and speaking with him, he understood.”

Amy Duggar just isn’t a fan of her cousin Josh. And now, she’s opening up concerning the methods wherein he’s affected her life. (Photograph Credit score: Instagram)

Amy emphasised that “We will use the scissors in fact!”

She added humorously: “Simply not on the cat.”

Very true! At age three, most youngsters are sufficiently old to make use of scissors beneath a guardian’s supervision.

Dillon King has at all times been supportive of Amy Duggar. Now, he’s becoming a member of her in talking out in opposition to Jim Bob. (Instagram)

It’s deeply unhappy that folks nonetheless have to elucidate the right way to guardian with out harming your baby.

However is Amy doing it proper? Higher than her abusive relations just isn’t the identical factor as proper, in any case.

Commenters had some questions and considerations on that matter.

Amy Duggar misplaced loads of weight throughout 2022. And he or she shared her progress with followers on Instagram. (Instagram)

“I don’t like this new parenting of telling your baby to ‘obey’” expressed one commenter. “… Can we use one other phrase that’s higher?”

One other started with an affirmation, writing: “I really like your parenting however not the ‘obey’ half.” 

Amy wrote to her followers: “Children want grace to mess up and study!” 

Amy Duggar appears happier than ever on Instagram. (Photograph Credit score: Instagram)

“In addition to I don’t need him [to] study ‘immediate obedience’ just like the IBLP does,” Amy strongly emphasised.

“I would like him to ask questions and study,” she burdened, “figuring out mother and pa are attempting to guard him solely.” 

That may be a regular and wholesome strategy to increase a baby. If solely it had been extra frequent.

In an Instagram video that she posted on June 30, 2023, Amy Duggar retrieved scissors from her 3-year-old son by chatting with him in a non-toxic method. (Instagram)

Others took subject with the way in which that Amy’s caption appeared to normalize “wine mother” tradition.

“Being after an extended day, it’s OK to have a glass and calm down and recharge for an additional wonderful day along with your children,” Amy replied.

“I by no means mentioned I drink in an extreme quantity however c’mon, having a glass of Moscato is nothing I’ll be ashamed of,” she quipped. Amy then famous: “Jesus drank wine.”